If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop
making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to
save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that’s not
meant to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find
what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not
treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can’t “be friends”. A friend
wouldn’t mistreat a friend.
Don’t settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along,
then he probably is. Don’t stay because you think “it will get better.” You’ll
be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. The
only person you can control in a relationship is you. Avoid men you have a
bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn’t marry them when he
got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently? Always have your own
set of friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will
use it against you later.
You cannot change a man’s behavior. Change comes from
within. Don’t EVER make him feel he is more important than you are. Even if he
has more education or is in a better job. Do not make him into a Quasi-God. He
is a man, nothing more, nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow someone
else’s man. If he cheated with you, he’ll cheat on you. A man will only treat
you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing the bending…compromise is a
2-way street. You need time to heal between relationships. There is nothing
cute about baggage. Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you. A relationship consists of
two WHOLE individuals. Look for someone complimentary…not supplementary.
Dating is fun…even if he doesn’t turn out to be Mr. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes. When a man always knows where you are, and you’re
always readily available to him, he takes it for granted. Never move into his
mother’s house. Never co-sign for a man. Don’t fully commit to a man who
doesn’t give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to
know others.
Scared of being alone is what makes a lot of women stay in
relationships that are abusive or hurtful. Dr Phil says, “You should know that
you’re the best thing that could ever happen to anyone and if a man mistreats
you, he’ll miss out on a good thing. If he was attracted to you in the first
place, just know that he’s not the only one. They’re all watching you, so you
have a lot of choices. Make the right one. Ladies take care of your own hearts…
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